Dear Ariel,
My friend keeps trying to take over my life. They try to control everything … even what I eat! I like them, but I want them to stop taking control of me. What do I do?

Sincerely,
In BIG Mess

Dear In BIG Mess,
You should definitely talk to this friend.  They shouldn't be telling you what you can or cannot do.  Pull them aside and let them know that you feel like they are being too bossy. If you prefer, you could send them an email as well. Nothing terrible will happen if you tell the truth, but nothing will happen at all if you keep it to yourself. Good luck!

Sincerely,
Ariel